I really think my child has ocd because of his thoughts.?

I made an appointment for him to see a counselor, but my husband is so pissed. He thinks he will outgrow it and to me just wants to ignore it. I know I am right that he as this. My husband said I keep talking about it is making it worse. We don't want him going on medication for this. Does anyone have any thoughts on this? Do you think I am right or my husband and is there self help that I can do with him?